Is this Love?!!!

Things people do for Love!

I recently read a story in the dailies about a man who was complaining that his partner made him have "the Snip", and has now left him for another man.

Don't start thinking in your mind that this is the trend or that he is a "mumu" in local parlance, or a "fool" as the case may be. And for anyone who may not know what the "Snip" means, it’s simply having a "vasectomy"" or simply "sterilisation for men".  Did you think I was talking about "vasculating the tommy...., or better, vacuuming the tommy".
Ok let me get back to the story, which is the main reason for writing this blog.  Now, the main reason is simply that the so called "Loved-up" man was told by his partner that she does not want any more children.

Background:
The lady has children from her ex-husband, whom she left for the "Partner".  After much ranting and being badged for months, the man lost all grounds and went for the final snip.

After a short while, she left him for another man, for whom she is now PREGNANT. This is indeed quite a tragedy as you would be thinking right now, given the initial fact that the woman does not want any more children.

My question now is:
Would you go to this extent to show someone that you LOVE them?  Mind you, she left HER HUSBAND to move in with the partner, and my thinking is, "Shouldn't this be a sign for the man not to sacrifice his future as far as child bearing is concerned?"

The most heart breaking of all, is her response to the man when he was complaining as she was leaving him. She said "You could always have it revised if you could find someone stupid enough to want any children."

Now he is regretting to have ever gone for the snip.  Still he has not come to terms with the situation based on his utterances - "I would never have had the snip if I hadn't loved her and wanted to stay together."  And he has been in constant contact with her through one of the Social media sites, and she wants them to have a drink one of these days, but is contemplating telling her NEW partner of his ordeal.

My View
In my mind the woman is a rolling stone and does not have a clue what it takes to be committed to someone; much less LOVE them.  To me, the woman in question so "mixed-up" in her thoughts, and seems not to have a mind of her own, as she is not even able to be committed in her relationships. If I am to ever suggest, I would say the man should forget her and start the process of rebuilding his life. He can go for any kind of counselling, or better still, seek for relationship advice.  He should have also known that if she was willing to leave her husband for him; he had his coming as well and should not have made such a big sacrifice for her.  Not forgetting it is said that love is blind.

Now is your turn to comment.
Now I will urge you to comment on what you think is your own view about this.